I'm a 20 year old guy and in a relationship with a girl that comes from a wealthy family. I've been dating her for 7 months. I enjoy being able to have great times with them and the assets they have. But she doesn't satisfy my sex drive, so I've been hooking up with girls on the side just to satisfy my sex drive because I'm very high libido. Am I wrong for this or should I keep doing it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Am I doing anything wrong?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Is cheating wrong?
I've just been thinking as long as she doesn't know about it then it's not a problem.
Anything you do in the dark will come to the light
I guess I've just been trying to be a 20 year old and "enjoy" everything without having to sacrifice anything.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
cheating is for when you have no other choice, like when you're married or living together and you literally can't get out of the relationship
there's no need to cheat when you can just talk to her about your issues and if that doesn't work at all, dump her and go find a new main girl who can satisfy you
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Where's your dignity man?
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