Am I an orbiter or not gaming her correctly?

[Knight of Roses]

Recently added an ex-girlfriend onto my plate rotation. My game has significantly improved since she broke up with me 6 months ago. However, for reasons I cannot explain, I just subconsciously can't game her the same way I am gaming other girls.

While with other plates I only contact them during times where I want to hang out, (i.e. I'll text to set up plans), I find myself attempting to play more mind games with this ex. I feel that given our history, I am entitled to more of her attention and hence she should be reaching out to me, after all, it was her that reached out to me 4 months after no contact to re-initiate things.

Am I an orbiter in her world or should I just forgo those feelings and game her like I do rest of my plates?

 

[spred]

Since you were together and she knows you in some degree, don't employ any game, just set up opportunities for sex to happen on your terms.
Otherwise yes, you are only one of her orbiters.

 

[lizardking82]

This is the emotional confusion that happens when you decide to pick up garbage food and taste it again.

 

[Murk]

Just contact her less then she contacts you, care less, see other girls more, fvck her good and selfishly when you get the chance. No going down on her.

 

[lizardking82]

No going down on her.

OP, take notes.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Just contact her less then she contacts you, care less, see other girls more, fvck her good and selfishly when you get the chance. No going down on her.

What's your reason for not going down on her? I know some women are fvcked In the head and you can't treat them too good. I was wondering your reason .

 

[Murk]

What's your reason for not going down on her? I know some women are fvcked In the head and you can't treat them too good. I was wondering your reason .

Because it sounds like she's playing a game here, definitely seeing other guy/s, I would not get pleasure going down on an ex gf that I'm now plating who is seeing other guys.

You can already see OP is gonna lose this game, I was just trying to help him. Why would you want to give selfless pleasure to this ex? I personally would not bother even plating her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Because it sounds like she's playing a game here, definitely seeing other guy/s, I would not get pleasure going down on an ex gf that I'm now plating who is seeing other guys.

You can already see OP is gonna lose this game, I was just trying to help him. Why would you want to give selfless pleasure to this ex? I personally would not bother even plating her.

Your right. That's the game in play .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think op needs to play this game how it's supposed to be played.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The required game is the same as "AMS" ( Alpha Male Strategies ). He's a bastard but his shyt works.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

All that matters is that she comes when he calls.

That's not chasing. Thats control.

I personally do not want all of my plates chasing me constantly. If they come when I reach out and I don't hear much from them otherwise, I consider it a blessing.

Agree. You should be able to call and figure out when your phvcking in the next couple of hours. It won't be this weekly schedule and squeezing you in a time slot. They will make the time.

It's best if plates prioritize you where you can get it when you want it.