ALPHATHREE's OFFICIAL GUIDE TO **Complimenting WOMEN**

[Alphathree]

When you look at a woman, your internal dialog might be something like this: "Well, she's got a nice butt and her face is cute, but she's kinda short." Or whatever.

But what does the AFC say? "You're beautiful." It's not the complete thought. The complete thought is: "DESPITE YOUR FLAWS, you're beautiful."

I compliment women all the time, but I don't leave out any of my thoughts. I was out shopping for a dress with an HB9 a while ago and she asked me how she looked. I said, "It doesn't flatter your curves."

Another girl asked me what I thought of her, so I started rambling off AFC stuff. This girl was 6'0", so I threw in, "short" as one of the qualities at the end of the list. She was totally delighted because "no guy" had "ever said that to" her before.

How does her a** look?
"Moderately curvy."
"Decent."

The point is, fully express the internal monologue in your head. Don't just leave it at "beautiful." The formula is <compliment> BUT <exception>.

LEAVE DOUBT IN HER MIND. SHE WILL SEEK VALIDATION. THIS IS GOOD. THIS IS THE POINT OF NEGGING and C&F.

 

[Alphathree]

Oh, and a good response to ANYTHING a woman asks, says, does, or does not do is this:

"Interesting." <sly smile>

EDIT: Oh, and never elaborate on what exactly it is you find interesting. This will drive her NUTS thinking about you.

 

[PeoplesChamp]

LOL, The title had me worried...but Bravo!!! When done correctly this can be more effective than failing to compliment at all (which is my stardard mo).

 

[Tigger]

What is AFC.


Where can you see this list?

 

[griffon65]

Originally posted by Alphathree
Oh, and a good response to ANYTHING a woman asks, says, does, or does not do is this:

"Interesting." <sly smile>

EDIT: Oh, and never elaborate on what exactly it is you find interesting. This will drive her NUTS thinking about you.

"interesting" hmm I like that. Im definatly gonna add that to my game. Thanks

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by griffon65
"interesting" hmm I like that. Im definatly gonna add that to my game. Thanks

I have said that for years and I remember an ex used to ask me is it? and I would never answer and sway the conversation.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Alphathree


The point is, fully express the internal monologue in your head. Don't just leave it at "beautiful." The formula is <compliment> BUT <exception>.

My gf has gotten so used to me saying something negative along with a positive, that if i ever say something only positive she says "where's the negative?"

I'm still not sure if this bugs her or not that i always do that. Too much of a good thing?

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I'd also suggest complimenting women on things they aren't used to being complimented about.

For example, I knew this young model who had guys saying "You're hot!" like 40 billion times an hour. I noticed she seemed smarter than the average model (excellent memory and interesting personality) so I commented on it. She was absolutely stunned, and blushed like a kid. Then I asked if those things were real and killed the mood.


(As a note I only say it if its true. If a hot model can't even spell "model", I'm not gonna tell her she's smart. This is more of my personal moral thing though)

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by griffon65
"interesting" hmm I like that. Im definatly gonna add that to my game. Thanks

I do that all the time...i stroke my little goetee to add a dramatic effect.