don_juan_20
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I'll definately be there.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
All toronto DJs!!!!!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
don_juan_20
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Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.
What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah i hear ya, my friends always say they'll go, and pull out when the time comes. I don't even ask anymore.
As for clothing, nothing special, prolly just a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt (the kind you don't tuck in).
Where do we get tix? Ticketmaster? If chlywly's going, it's just the 3 of us then, unless others from this thread wanna join too.
don_juan_20
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Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!
I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
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Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey, I would go to this. How are you guys going to identify each other?
Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.
I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe
I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt
Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.
I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe
I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt
don_juan_20
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We'll probably meet in an area with few people, because it will be too hard to identify eachother at the club.
Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Yet another Toronto future DJ
Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?!
P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!
Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?!
P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that
) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!Synthesis
Don Juan
Toronto women are cold?
Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.
I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.
I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
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Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Toronto has lots of fine ass women starting university this september, who wants to give the double cohort a Toronto style welcome I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training how it's done?
I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training how it's done?
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Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Synthesis> I've found that club girls are pretty friendly or socialble, i've had just as much luck in university too. Shop attendants are friendly but I haven't had much experience with chatting up girls in malls...I'm going to try all of the above once school starts.
Synthesis
Don Juan
For those who are going to guvernment
Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.
I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.
I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Guvernment
Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.
There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.
I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.
So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.
There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.
I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.
So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
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I had a great time At labour of love. Went solo...
If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.
I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night.
If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.
I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night.