"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I'll definately be there.
Alright, that makes two of us. And i think chlywly's up for it too? Either of you guys bringing anyone?
 

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Depending on my schedual but I'll be there if i'm free :)
 

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don_juan_20, are you going 100%? I'm going, and chlywly is considering it. Lets plan this out on Wednesday/Thursday latest, we gotta buy tix asap!
 

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Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.

What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.

What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
Yeah i hear ya, my friends always say they'll go, and pull out when the time comes. I don't even ask anymore.

As for clothing, nothing special, prolly just a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt (the kind you don't tuck in).

Where do we get tix? Ticketmaster? If chlywly's going, it's just the 3 of us then, unless others from this thread wanna join too.
 

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Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!

I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
 
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Originally posted by don_juan_20
Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!

I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
Woah no dress code? I'm still gonna dress well. It'll set me apart from everyone who doesn't :D Any idea when Ferry and Sasha start, and how long the sets are?
 

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Hey, I would go to this. How are you guys going to identify each other?

Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.

I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe

I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt :)
 

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We'll probably meet in an area with few people, because it will be too hard to identify eachother at the club.

Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yet another Toronto future DJ ;)

Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?! :p

P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that :D) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!
 

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Toronto women are cold?

Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.

I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
 
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Toronto has lots of fine ass women starting university this september, who wants to give the double cohort a Toronto style welcome :D I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training :cool: how it's done?
 
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Synthesis> I've found that club girls are pretty friendly or socialble, i've had just as much luck in university too. Shop attendants are friendly but I haven't had much experience with chatting up girls in malls...I'm going to try all of the above once school starts.
 

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For those who are going to guvernment

Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.

I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: For those who are going to guvernment

Originally posted by Synthesis
My buddies thought I was mental.
The number one sign that you're doing something right :D
 

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Guvernment

Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.

There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.

I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.

So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
 

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I had a great time At labour of love. Went solo...

If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.

I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night. :cool: :cool:
 
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