don_juan_20
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I'll definately be there.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
All toronto DJs!!!!!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
don_juan_20
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Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.
What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah i hear ya, my friends always say they'll go, and pull out when the time comes. I don't even ask anymore.
As for clothing, nothing special, prolly just a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt (the kind you don't tuck in).
Where do we get tix? Ticketmaster? If chlywly's going, it's just the 3 of us then, unless others from this thread wanna join too.
don_juan_20
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Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!
I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
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Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey, I would go to this. How are you guys going to identify each other?
Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.
I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe
I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt
Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.
I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe
I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt
don_juan_20
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We'll probably meet in an area with few people, because it will be too hard to identify eachother at the club.
Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Yet another Toronto future DJ
Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?!
P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!
Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?!
P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that
) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!Synthesis
Don Juan
Toronto women are cold?
Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.
I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.
I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
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Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Toronto has lots of fine ass women starting university this september, who wants to give the double cohort a Toronto style welcome I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training how it's done?
I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training how it's done?
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Toronto's Finest
Don Juan
Synthesis> I've found that club girls are pretty friendly or socialble, i've had just as much luck in university too. Shop attendants are friendly but I haven't had much experience with chatting up girls in malls...I'm going to try all of the above once school starts.
Synthesis
Don Juan
For those who are going to guvernment
Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.
I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.
I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Guvernment
Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.
There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.
I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.
So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.
There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.
I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.
So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
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I had a great time At labour of love. Went solo...
If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.
I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night.
If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.
I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night.