"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
I'll definately be there.
Alright, that makes two of us. And i think chlywly's up for it too? Either of you guys bringing anyone?
 

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Depending on my schedual but I'll be there if i'm free :)
 

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don_juan_20, are you going 100%? I'm going, and chlywly is considering it. Lets plan this out on Wednesday/Thursday latest, we gotta buy tix asap!
 

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Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.

What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by don_juan_20
Yea, I'm going 100%. Just waiting till today to get final word from some friends. Turns out I'm going solo.

What are you going to wear? It will be packed and probably hot in there. The guvernment is rather relaxed on dress code compared to others.
Yeah i hear ya, my friends always say they'll go, and pull out when the time comes. I don't even ask anymore.

As for clothing, nothing special, prolly just a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt (the kind you don't tuck in).

Where do we get tix? Ticketmaster? If chlywly's going, it's just the 3 of us then, unless others from this thread wanna join too.
 

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Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!

I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
 
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Originally posted by don_juan_20
Just bought my ticket from ticketmaster. All the early bird tickets are gone. They must be selling quick. Buy it asap!

I called the guv. They will be open until 7 or 8 am, and there is no dress code. Come in shorts if you want. heh
Woah no dress code? I'm still gonna dress well. It'll set me apart from everyone who doesn't :D Any idea when Ferry and Sasha start, and how long the sets are?
 

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Hey, I would go to this. How are you guys going to identify each other?

Lately I have enough balls to walk up to any woman no matter how hot and start a conversation. If she doesn't like me I don't give a sh*t because I still get the practice.

I go casually, because every time I dress up I always look like my mother picked that sh*t off the rack at sears hehe

I only look normal in a jeans and t-shirt :)
 

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We'll probably meet in an area with few people, because it will be too hard to identify eachother at the club.

Usually when I dress up, its black pants, a hugo boss blue dress shirt untucked, and a white shirt underneath. With 2 buttons at the top unbuttoned.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yet another Toronto future DJ ;)

Hey guys,
I'm from Scarborough, how many Toronto DJ's does that make in total now? University is starting in September, who's ready to MACKKK?! :p

P.S. I wont' be coming to this event (30 bucks for a club event, phuck that :D) but I'll meet up with you guys some other time for sure....what happens when all the big pimp guns get together? That's right boys, you get a frikin' army!
 

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Toronto women are cold?

Who here has tried approaching women in Toronto on the street or in a public place? Places like bookstores, malls (yorkdale), and harbourfront .. I've found those women to be very difficult to crack.

I've found that the girls in places like a club (eg. phoenix concert theatre) or a gym have been much more receptive.
 
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Toronto has lots of fine ass women starting university this september, who wants to give the double cohort a Toronto style welcome :D I'm all set for picking up in a university (Ryerson, U of T, York), anyone got game and willing to show a novice DJ in training :cool: how it's done?
 
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Synthesis> I've found that club girls are pretty friendly or socialble, i've had just as much luck in university too. Shop attendants are friendly but I haven't had much experience with chatting up girls in malls...I'm going to try all of the above once school starts.
 

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For those who are going to guvernment

Ok, where are we going to meet each other? I gotta see a real DJ from this site in action hehe.

I've been honing my technique and I'm getting better and better. I approached a random cute chick who was smoking outside the UofT graduate house (near bloor and spadina) - I chatted her up, flirted, and got her email. My buddies thought I was mental.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: For those who are going to guvernment

Originally posted by Synthesis
My buddies thought I was mental.
The number one sign that you're doing something right :D
 

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Guvernment

Well I was at the government last sunday (august 31). I wasn't able to find any of you DJs seeing as how I had no idea who to look for and there were thousands and thousands and thousands of people there hehe.

There were soooooo many hot girls at that place. Of the best sort too, wearing the thin, skin-tight revealing pants and shirt, with the glowsticks, tattoos, toned bodies, .. just perfect.

I stayed until about 6am. My friend went home with a chick he hooked up with lol.

So would anybody else who was there like to tell me how you found it?
 

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I had a great time At labour of love. Went solo...

If you ever want to go to a nightclub just let me know Synthesis.

I don't see how it could have been remotely possible to have found someone that night. :cool: :cool:
 
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