Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Find more.I got the numbers, I even had about 4 girls agree to meet but they all went ghost and now I have no plates.
When all the plates are spinning it feels good like one of them has to go for you. Then when none of them do it kinda sucks.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
@Murkserious how?It's not a plate if you haven't had sex.
I lost a plate so I'm down to 3.
@sosousage ugh depends on the person I guess.fatties are more economical choice
One of them was fat. I'm not finding fat chicks to be any easier. If anything they are more work. More judgemental, more frigid. I don't get it. Why do 4s and 5s go around rejecting guys as if they are 8s and 9s?
On a $ invested per pound basis.fatties are more economical choice
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds like a typical Friday night. Just keep approaching.I got the numbers, I even had about 4 girls agree to meet but they all went ghost and now I have no plates.
When all the plates are spinning it feels good like one of them has to go for you. Then when none of them do it kinda sucks.
Lul >says hello to girlYou didn't have any plates because you weren't sleeping with them.
How what
how are you this masculine alpha maleHow what
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I thought we agreed not to address each other. Work on yourself don’t worry about me.how are you this masculine alpha male