"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All Breakups should be Mutual

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The only way a breakup can be anything but mutual is if one person is living in denial of blatantly obvious signs that the other person is not reciprocating.

If you ever just come right out and say "I want X, and if you can't provide that, then we need to go our separate ways", chances are they will tell you they are sorry they can't provide X (if they could, they would have already). Remember: they probably wanted to.

Then, there is nothing left to do but hug and say you are happy you met them and move on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a man gets to a certain knowledge level with women and plays his cards right he will never get dumped again. That is because he will be smart enough to see the signs of the storm coming in and end it before she does.
 
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Most guys are clueless, that's the reason for all the drama. Their ego can't handle it.
 
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Great thread. Some have very little words. Some of the best.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The other night, while sitting in a hotel, my date got a text and said "Oh, God. There is this guy, and he just won't figure it out that I'm not interested". At that moment I opened the closet door and my suitcase was already packed, and I said "That reminds me: I'm leaving you because you haven't put out after 4 dates".
 
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