"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Read the story I linked https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Parker_Ray DP Ray proved it's possible to accumulate lays even in the most sh-thole of states... Just rid yourself of anything approaching a moral compass
It is impressive for someone to get laid in a town with less than 50,000 population in one of the worst states in the USA.

I read through his page. He seduced a woman in Albuquerque and took her down to his small town 2 hours south of Albuquerque for sex.

Albuquerque's mating environment is also affected by the presence of Sandia National Laboratories. Sandia brings in numerous STEM nerds who likely struggle to get laid.


It's possible that some STEM nerds are beta bucks for the numerous single moms in Albuquerque, but it's doubtful. The single moms in Albuquerque are often Hispanic/Latina and the STEM nerds usually are non-Hispanic. They don't seem to mix well for even a simple conversation in a bar in a lot of situations.

The best form of game in Albuquerque is dirtbag game. If a man can cultivate a persona of being a criminal type dirtbag, that's the kind of persona that creates a positive response with the women of Albuquerque. The women of Albuquerque are often impoverished and trashy as well, so they'll like a man with tattoos who might live a trailer park and engages in criminal behavior.
 

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20 year old thread another two decades...
Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
Some things aren't especially susceptible to change, hoss. Another example: The Carribean will probably always be a backwater of The Western Hemisphere
 
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