"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Read the story I linked https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Parker_Ray DP Ray proved it's possible to accumulate lays even in the most sh-thole of states... Just rid yourself of anything approaching a moral compass
It is impressive for someone to get laid in a town with less than 50,000 population in one of the worst states in the USA.

I read through his page. He seduced a woman in Albuquerque and took her down to his small town 2 hours south of Albuquerque for sex.

Albuquerque's mating environment is also affected by the presence of Sandia National Laboratories. Sandia brings in numerous STEM nerds who likely struggle to get laid.


It's possible that some STEM nerds are beta bucks for the numerous single moms in Albuquerque, but it's doubtful. The single moms in Albuquerque are often Hispanic/Latina and the STEM nerds usually are non-Hispanic. They don't seem to mix well for even a simple conversation in a bar in a lot of situations.

The best form of game in Albuquerque is dirtbag game. If a man can cultivate a persona of being a criminal type dirtbag, that's the kind of persona that creates a positive response with the women of Albuquerque. The women of Albuquerque are often impoverished and trashy as well, so they'll like a man with tattoos who might live a trailer park and engages in criminal behavior.
 

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20 year old thread another two decades...
Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
Some things aren't especially susceptible to change, hoss. Another example: The Carribean will probably always be a backwater of The Western Hemisphere
 
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