"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the story I linked https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Parker_Ray DP Ray proved it's possible to accumulate lays even in the most sh-thole of states... Just rid yourself of anything approaching a moral compass
It is impressive for someone to get laid in a town with less than 50,000 population in one of the worst states in the USA.

I read through his page. He seduced a woman in Albuquerque and took her down to his small town 2 hours south of Albuquerque for sex.

Albuquerque's mating environment is also affected by the presence of Sandia National Laboratories. Sandia brings in numerous STEM nerds who likely struggle to get laid.


It's possible that some STEM nerds are beta bucks for the numerous single moms in Albuquerque, but it's doubtful. The single moms in Albuquerque are often Hispanic/Latina and the STEM nerds usually are non-Hispanic. They don't seem to mix well for even a simple conversation in a bar in a lot of situations.

The best form of game in Albuquerque is dirtbag game. If a man can cultivate a persona of being a criminal type dirtbag, that's the kind of persona that creates a positive response with the women of Albuquerque. The women of Albuquerque are often impoverished and trashy as well, so they'll like a man with tattoos who might live a trailer park and engages in criminal behavior.
 

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20 year old thread another two decades...
Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Albuquerque's scene hasn't changed that much in the last 20 years. It's always been a tough place to date because it is a craphole. It's a more scenic than average craphole because of the Sandia Mountains, but still a craphole.

Albuquerque is likely to still be a craphole in 20 years. Nevertheless, there are worse places to try to get laid than Albuquerque.

The best thing that Albuquerque has going for it is a good quantity of people living there.
Some things aren't especially susceptible to change, hoss. Another example: The Carribean will probably always be a backwater of The Western Hemisphere
 
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