ok so there's this girl that i was cool with at the beginning of the year, we talked often at school. also we used to talk almost every night on aim. i have no idea why but now she has blocked me on aim...i have never asked her why, or anything. and we are still cool at school. so should i IM her on my old screenname and ask her whats up, or do something else? fast answer would be nice, shes on right now.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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AIM wtf
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if you're absolutely sure she's blocked you, just ask her why.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
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Woah, we have the same name. But anyways, how do you know she's blocked you, and if she really has, then freeze her out for awhile.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
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exactlyTouchout said:She wants you to save the conversation you were having with her over AIM for the dates your going on!
aim is a horrible crutch for PUA's and should be avoided. Nothing beats personal conversation, and if that can't happen at least use the phone to get the inflection in the voice. Messangers are a terrible way to communicate. It's just 'chatting' not 'communicating'