"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AIM wtf

nikko49

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ok so there's this girl that i was cool with at the beginning of the year, we talked often at school. also we used to talk almost every night on aim. i have no idea why but now she has blocked me on aim...i have never asked her why, or anything. and we are still cool at school. so should i IM her on my old screenname and ask her whats up, or do something else? fast answer would be nice, shes on right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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if you're absolutely sure she's blocked you, just ask her why.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
 

Dr.Dude

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Screw AIM, be confident and go talk to her in person as soon as you can. Don't forget to be smooooth.
 

SenorSuave

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Woah, we have the same name. But anyways, how do you know she's blocked you, and if she really has, then freeze her out for awhile.
 

Touchout

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She wants you to save the conversation you were having with her over AIM for the dates your going on!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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aim is a horrible crutch for PUA's and should be avoided. Nothing beats personal conversation, and if that can't happen at least use the phone to get the inflection in the voice. Messangers are a terrible way to communicate. It's just 'chatting' not 'communicating'
 
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