ok so there's this girl that i was cool with at the beginning of the year, we talked often at school. also we used to talk almost every night on aim. i have no idea why but now she has blocked me on aim...i have never asked her why, or anything. and we are still cool at school. so should i IM her on my old screenname and ask her whats up, or do something else? fast answer would be nice, shes on right now.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AIM wtf
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
if you're absolutely sure she's blocked you, just ask her why.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
SenorSuave
Don Juan
Woah, we have the same name. But anyways, how do you know she's blocked you, and if she really has, then freeze her out for awhile.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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exactlyTouchout said:She wants you to save the conversation you were having with her over AIM for the dates your going on!
aim is a horrible crutch for PUA's and should be avoided. Nothing beats personal conversation, and if that can't happen at least use the phone to get the inflection in the voice. Messangers are a terrible way to communicate. It's just 'chatting' not 'communicating'