"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nikko49

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ok so there's this girl that i was cool with at the beginning of the year, we talked often at school. also we used to talk almost every night on aim. i have no idea why but now she has blocked me on aim...i have never asked her why, or anything. and we are still cool at school. so should i IM her on my old screenname and ask her whats up, or do something else? fast answer would be nice, shes on right now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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if you're absolutely sure she's blocked you, just ask her why.
don't try to do anything about it thought right away.
 
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Dr.Dude

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Screw AIM, be confident and go talk to her in person as soon as you can. Don't forget to be smooooth.
 
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Woah, we have the same name. But anyways, how do you know she's blocked you, and if she really has, then freeze her out for awhile.
 
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Touchout

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She wants you to save the conversation you were having with her over AIM for the dates your going on!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aim is a horrible crutch for PUA's and should be avoided. Nothing beats personal conversation, and if that can't happen at least use the phone to get the inflection in the voice. Messangers are a terrible way to communicate. It's just 'chatting' not 'communicating'
 
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