Cinch501
Don Juan
Im only 29 + my hair is gettin v thin. Im gonna shave it as short as I can but jus wanna know do women go for men with shaved heads? What about clean shaven heads, like Kojack?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Ahh! Where s my hair??
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
brat-buster
Don Juan
Your dooomed dude.....No woman will ever like you again.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
Cinch501
Don Juan
No it aint an excuse to approach women. I think Im jus a bit vein + hate the thought of gettin/lookin old!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I started losing my hair at the same time. Worry not.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.
Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Cinch501
Don Juan
Cheers mate! some good tips there
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I am 24 and dealing with it, and my sarges are stronger than ever. The chicks will sometimes say something about it, but that is usually after she has already slept with me and gets up the nerve to mention it
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Cinch501
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
picard
Master Don Juan
best to be bald and well dressed
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.