Cinch501
Don Juan
Im only 29 + my hair is gettin v thin. Im gonna shave it as short as I can but jus wanna know do women go for men with shaved heads? What about clean shaven heads, like Kojack?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ahh! Where s my hair??
- Thread starter Cinch501
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
brat-buster
Don Juan
Your dooomed dude.....No woman will ever like you again.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
Cinch501
Don Juan
No it aint an excuse to approach women. I think Im jus a bit vein + hate the thought of gettin/lookin old!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I started losing my hair at the same time. Worry not.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.
Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Cinch501
Don Juan
Cheers mate! some good tips there
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I am 24 and dealing with it, and my sarges are stronger than ever. The chicks will sometimes say something about it, but that is usually after she has already slept with me and gets up the nerve to mention it
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Cinch501
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
picard
Master Don Juan
best to be bald and well dressed
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.