Cinch501
Don Juan
Im only 29 + my hair is gettin v thin. Im gonna shave it as short as I can but jus wanna know do women go for men with shaved heads? What about clean shaven heads, like Kojack?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ahh! Where s my hair??
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
brat-buster
Don Juan
Your dooomed dude.....No woman will ever like you again.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
cumon dude, don't sweat it. If you can create attraction, it doesn't matter.
Cinch501
Don Juan
No it aint an excuse to approach women. I think Im jus a bit vein + hate the thought of gettin/lookin old!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I started losing my hair at the same time. Worry not.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.
Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Style comments: Nothing looks worse than someone who has LONG hair and thinning hair simultaneously (other perhaps than a toupet or a comb-over).
It's time to start looking like a real man. I've found that I use that serious, masculine military look. I don't go Kojack, I keep it very short.
If you are going bald, go to your barber, get him to give you a number 2 or number 3 army shave. Keep the hair short, then learn how to cut it.
Eventually, depending on HOW you are losing your hair (I've got that Kevin Spacey look), you play with it. I have two grooves on both sides, and an island on the front. I let the hair behind the island grow a little longer so that it bridges the horse-shoe and the island. When done subtly it works very well. Time to learn a new style, that's all.
Next, consider your facial hair. If you have thick facial hair, grow a decent goatee, and sytle it very well. Don't know how? Ask a MALE barber. Tell him that you also want to adjust for your facial assymetry (all of our faces have two sides to it, neither are identical). I recommend visiting at least several male barbers, and look for the one who "gets it".
It's just that phase in a man's life. You are no longer the lithe and skinny, cut pizza scarfing boy you once were. Take advantage of that, because now you are truly becoming a MAN, not just a "young man" You get to adapt to your changing body. testosterone. You should (if you haven't already) notice an increase in muscle mass. I'm going to bet that you are also seeing signs of a wider chest, larger shoulders, stronger back and thickening legs. (Ah! But watch the belly, my friend!
). Probably your sex drive will become less sharp, more mellow, but more controlled and more powerful. Less choppy waves, more deep currents.Use the hair loss as a sign of growing dominance and power. Embrace the power that comes with it. Take advantage of it. Stand straight, and let your head shine on. You are now in your power years.
Cinch501
Don Juan
Cheers mate! some good tips there
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I am 24 and dealing with it, and my sarges are stronger than ever. The chicks will sometimes say something about it, but that is usually after she has already slept with me and gets up the nerve to mention it
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Cinch501
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
Would you rather date an HB with huge guns with poor confidence, low self asteem and no personality or an HB with small boobs, who oozes with sexuality, is funny, confident, sure of herself and is great to be around?
Everyone on earth has some feature or attribute they feel self conscious about.
The key is about your attitude and how you deal with it, and thats what people respect!
I mean if you dwell on it or not its still there, so why not make the best of it. Besides, if you want to compare, look at all the celebrities with hair loss...Vin Diesel, Robin Williams, Bruce Willis, Robert Duvall, Homer Simpson, Billy Corgan, Montel Williams, the list goes on forever.....................being bald adds character.
Hell If Jude Law can bag the nanny - so can you !!
Elimidate
picard
Master Don Juan
best to be bald and well dressed
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
It is better to have a bald head like captain Picard instead of wearing a toupee. A toupee would show that you are insecure.
You just have to dress classy to impress the ladies.
I talk to other women on different sites; they told me that they prefer bald men to be well dress. You don't have to dress in expensive clothing but the clothes should be tasteful and elegant.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.