"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ahh, my first ****-block

drSpum85

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'ello,

Bah, so my quests with our fairer gender have been quite fruitful in the months following my AFC-DJ transition, but last night was another new experience.

I have her isolated in the dorm room with kino, other-essentials, blah-blah, but then out of nowhere comes her friend [afc] who jumps on her roommate's bed and is just laying his fat-carcass down and seems to not understand what me and her are about to do. In the end, me and the female friend move back to the dance room and never see each other again for the remainder of the night (what happened for the remainder of the night is a story in and of itself). But I digress.

My question is, should I have just stated openly for him to "get the fark out", evil-eyed him, or what? Bah, the bitter taste of failure.

Each day brings a new challenge,

p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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pimpfromdayone

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Well, it is kinda hard to handle that situation, since no matter what you did, he ruined it for you anyway. I would have taken the girl and said, "Let's find another room."
That little fu-cker who did this to you knew exactly what was going on and he did this intentionally to you.
 

upcomingDJ

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i feel you on this.. learn this important trait of a DJ: adaptability..

learn to run with anything
 

Smooth Player 056

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I would have told him to " GET THE F*** OUT".....................or tell him u have a secret to tell him lead him outside the door and SLAM it and LOCK it. and laugh
 

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A girl who likes you will maneuver around the kockblock (SOSUAVE.COM IS STUPID FOR BLANKING OUT WORDS) or at least talk over him.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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flexion_

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I'd say yes next time take charge. Say get the fvck out in a joking way so the blocker gets the message and the girl knows that you are just trying to be alone with her.

It would also be a good time to bring up that friends line, "We have to start locking that door..."!
 

drSpum85

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yesh

Yes, at first she seemed to be pushing him to leave ("you should go back on the dance floor"), but he was drunk, fat, and immobile. Yes, we really should start locking that door. I recall a past dream where I was with a fellow camp counselor and a stream of kids poured in after I neglected to lock the door...

Oh well, the battle of life continues,

p
 
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