"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ahh, my first ****-block

drSpum85

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'ello,

Bah, so my quests with our fairer gender have been quite fruitful in the months following my AFC-DJ transition, but last night was another new experience.

I have her isolated in the dorm room with kino, other-essentials, blah-blah, but then out of nowhere comes her friend [afc] who jumps on her roommate's bed and is just laying his fat-carcass down and seems to not understand what me and her are about to do. In the end, me and the female friend move back to the dance room and never see each other again for the remainder of the night (what happened for the remainder of the night is a story in and of itself). But I digress.

My question is, should I have just stated openly for him to "get the fark out", evil-eyed him, or what? Bah, the bitter taste of failure.

Each day brings a new challenge,

p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pimpfromdayone

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Well, it is kinda hard to handle that situation, since no matter what you did, he ruined it for you anyway. I would have taken the girl and said, "Let's find another room."
That little fu-cker who did this to you knew exactly what was going on and he did this intentionally to you.
 

upcomingDJ

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i feel you on this.. learn this important trait of a DJ: adaptability..

learn to run with anything
 

Smooth Player 056

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I would have told him to " GET THE F*** OUT".....................or tell him u have a secret to tell him lead him outside the door and SLAM it and LOCK it. and laugh
 

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A girl who likes you will maneuver around the kockblock (SOSUAVE.COM IS STUPID FOR BLANKING OUT WORDS) or at least talk over him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flexion_

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I'd say yes next time take charge. Say get the fvck out in a joking way so the blocker gets the message and the girl knows that you are just trying to be alone with her.

It would also be a good time to bring up that friends line, "We have to start locking that door..."!
 

drSpum85

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yesh

Yes, at first she seemed to be pushing him to leave ("you should go back on the dance floor"), but he was drunk, fat, and immobile. Yes, we really should start locking that door. I recall a past dream where I was with a fellow camp counselor and a stream of kids poured in after I neglected to lock the door...

Oh well, the battle of life continues,

p
 
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