"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ahh, my first ****-block

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'ello,

Bah, so my quests with our fairer gender have been quite fruitful in the months following my AFC-DJ transition, but last night was another new experience.

I have her isolated in the dorm room with kino, other-essentials, blah-blah, but then out of nowhere comes her friend [afc] who jumps on her roommate's bed and is just laying his fat-carcass down and seems to not understand what me and her are about to do. In the end, me and the female friend move back to the dance room and never see each other again for the remainder of the night (what happened for the remainder of the night is a story in and of itself). But I digress.

My question is, should I have just stated openly for him to "get the fark out", evil-eyed him, or what? Bah, the bitter taste of failure.

Each day brings a new challenge,

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pimpfromdayone

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Well, it is kinda hard to handle that situation, since no matter what you did, he ruined it for you anyway. I would have taken the girl and said, "Let's find another room."
That little fu-cker who did this to you knew exactly what was going on and he did this intentionally to you.
 
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upcomingDJ

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i feel you on this.. learn this important trait of a DJ: adaptability..

learn to run with anything
 
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Smooth Player 056

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I would have told him to " GET THE F*** OUT".....................or tell him u have a secret to tell him lead him outside the door and SLAM it and LOCK it. and laugh
 
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A girl who likes you will maneuver around the kockblock (SOSUAVE.COM IS STUPID FOR BLANKING OUT WORDS) or at least talk over him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd say yes next time take charge. Say get the fvck out in a joking way so the blocker gets the message and the girl knows that you are just trying to be alone with her.

It would also be a good time to bring up that friends line, "We have to start locking that door..."!
 
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drSpum85

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yesh

Yes, at first she seemed to be pushing him to leave ("you should go back on the dance floor"), but he was drunk, fat, and immobile. Yes, we really should start locking that door. I recall a past dream where I was with a fellow camp counselor and a stream of kids poured in after I neglected to lock the door...

Oh well, the battle of life continues,

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