ahh!! I f*cked up! get me out!

[tryin 2 play]

Been with my girlfriend for 6 months. Girl absolutely loves me. Anyway, I have been asked out by a couple girls in school this semester at college. I tought that this was pretty cool.(using a lot that this site says to do).

I dont know how or why, because i have never done this before, but i took one of these girls up on her offer. I chilled at her hosue the first night. Within two hours i had her pants off, but some got some LMR and she didnt want to have sex. One week later I have sex with her. Also i blew this girl off 3 times before we chilled, becuase i was having guilty conscience about cheating o my girl. Overall i was just an a$$hole to this chick....so sh wanted me more.

Anyway, I feel terrible now. I f*cked that girl after me and my gf got in a fight, but i feel terrible now. Problem is, this new girl really likes me, but i'm not into her like that. She could NEVER replace my gf. What should i do to break free from ths chick? I do not want this to go on ANY longer, and I want to end it as quickly and smoothly as possible, with no fighting, crazy bs, etc... How do I go about doing this without all the drama?

 

[sav]

does she know u have a gf?

then just lay out the terms if you want to keep her around as a FB, or flat out tell her that you have feelings for somebody else and that it wouldnt be fair for both of them...

basically differ the blame, use the old "its not you, its me" **** that girls use on guys all the time...

 

[Sean O]

Go uber-AFC on her. Buy her flowers, write her a poem, whatever you want to do, bro! The point is to turn her off, let her think SHE'S rejecting YOU. That way, she won't come after your GF or try to blackmail you.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Slap tha ho!!!!!!http://www.aeonity.com/ab/games/simulation/slap-that-ho.php

 

[Charm]

Go uber-AFC on her. Buy her flowers, write her a poem, whatever you want to do, bro! The point is to turn her off, let her think SHE'S rejecting YOU. That way, she won't come after your GF or try to blackmail you.

Haha I love it. Run her off with AFCness!

 

[spesmilitis]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=41738&highlight=shattering+limits

Yeah dude, tell something like shout your love to her from the top of your loungs, then cry right after. Call her like all the time to talk about your 'feelings'
and what an extraordinary girl she is. Oh, and talk about your mom too.

 

[tryin 2 play]

Thanks for the responses lol. Well I have a feeling if I start telling her I love her and all that, she will want me just as much. I can see it when she looks at me that she is probably in love with me, or is falling for me. I just want to end this quick, not let it drag out.


This is the last time i get myself into this mess!!

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

be honest but direct. let her know that you're not feeling the same thing she is.

Do it soon before she believes otherwise, but be tactful and spare her feelings.

its good to avoid burning bridges whenever you can.

 

[spider_007]

tell her your gay.

 

[gherald]

tell her how you feel...

That's the best way