"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ahh!! I f*cked up! get me out!

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Been with my girlfriend for 6 months. Girl absolutely loves me. Anyway, I have been asked out by a couple girls in school this semester at college. I tought that this was pretty cool.(using a lot that this site says to do).

I dont know how or why, because i have never done this before, but i took one of these girls up on her offer. I chilled at her hosue the first night. Within two hours i had her pants off, but some got some LMR and she didnt want to have sex. One week later I have sex with her. Also i blew this girl off 3 times before we chilled, becuase i was having guilty conscience about cheating o my girl. Overall i was just an a$$hole to this chick....so sh wanted me more.

Anyway, I feel terrible now. I f*cked that girl after me and my gf got in a fight, but i feel terrible now. Problem is, this new girl really likes me, but i'm not into her like that. She could NEVER replace my gf. What should i do to break free from ths chick? I do not want this to go on ANY longer, and I want to end it as quickly and smoothly as possible, with no fighting, crazy bs, etc... How do I go about doing this without all the drama?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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does she know u have a gf?

then just lay out the terms if you want to keep her around as a FB, or flat out tell her that you have feelings for somebody else and that it wouldnt be fair for both of them...

basically differ the blame, use the old "its not you, its me" **** that girls use on guys all the time...
 
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Go uber-AFC on her. Buy her flowers, write her a poem, whatever you want to do, bro! The point is to turn her off, let her think SHE'S rejecting YOU. That way, she won't come after your GF or try to blackmail you.
 
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Sean O said:
Go uber-AFC on her. Buy her flowers, write her a poem, whatever you want to do, bro! The point is to turn her off, let her think SHE'S rejecting YOU. That way, she won't come after your GF or try to blackmail you.
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Haha I love it. Run her off with AFCness!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks for the responses lol. Well I have a feeling if I start telling her I love her and all that, she will want me just as much. I can see it when she looks at me that she is probably in love with me, or is falling for me. I just want to end this quick, not let it drag out.


This is the last time i get myself into this mess!!
 
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be honest but direct. let her know that you're not feeling the same thing she is.

Do it soon before she believes otherwise, but be tactful and spare her feelings.

its good to avoid burning bridges whenever you can.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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