You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by Luveno
The real legal age is 14..but that only flies if you're 16....
Soo... when a girl turns 16, it's fair game for everybody? Or only if the "seducer" is 18 and yonger?16 is fine UNLESS you are in a position of power. For instance, you are a cop and you had consentual sex with a 16 year old. She could turn that around saying that she was intimidated by your power...you'd lose your job, life, etc. Bad idea unless you're a bum who works at mcdonalds.
18+ you mean?18 up is fair game.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent, although both the Ontario Court of Appeal(3) and the Quebec Court of Appeal(4) have struck down the relevant section of the Criminal Code.
I thought it was 14 with no restrictions. (except for the one "position of power" thing whatever that is)Originally posted by Luveno
The real legal age is 14..but that only flies if you're 16....
Yeah, that's the way I see it too.Originally posted by showtime17
I thought it was 14 with no restrictions. (except for the one "position of power" thing whatever that is)
So if you're 45 and not in a position of power over the 14 year old chick (like a teacher or something), you can fukk her legally. At least I think that's the law, but I might be misunderstanding it....
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not legally it isn'tOriginally posted by Heizen
What are you getting at man. If you are 30, you need to find some other chicks before you worry if screwing a 16 year old is legal or not. That is just sick.
back in the old days, chicks used to get married at like 13 or something. for example juliet in shakespeare's play is supposed to be 13.....Originally posted by Heizen
What are you getting at man. If you are 30, you need to find some other chicks before you worry if screwing a 16 year old is legal or not. That is just sick.