"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Age of consent in canada
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
16 is fine UNLESS you are in a position of power. For instance, you are a cop and you had consentual sex with a 16 year old. She could turn that around saying that she was intimidated by your power...you'd lose your job, life, etc. Bad idea unless you're a bum who works at mcdonalds.
18 up is fair game.
NB: Isn't there some kind of website with all this info on it?
Have I been missing out? It says that the age of consent for heterosexual relationships is 14
What if the guy is 30 and the girl is 14? Duuude?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
showtime17
Don Juan
I thought it was 14 with no restrictions. (except for the one "position of power" thing whatever that is)
So if you're 45 and not in a position of power over the 14 year old chick (like a teacher or something), you can fukk her legally. At least I think that's the law, but I might be misunderstanding it....
Heizen
Senior Don Juan
showtime17
Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just Another Bum
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showtime17
Don Juan
back in the old days, chicks used to get married at like 13 or something. for example juliet in shakespeare's play is supposed to be 13.....