"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Age Issue

judoalex

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I live in Tokyo and I ususally lie about my age..im 19 but i can get away at saying im 30..anyways with a few months on this site and others i started sarging alone and im doing quite well. anyways last night i was at a bar..and i played my game perfect..and recently i read an article that you should be proud of your age and wear it like a name tag..anyway i could have laid both of those girls then i told them my age(both girls i coulda ****ed were in their 30s)..then the girl i was going to bang kept wispering to her friend it will be illegal and making funny comments of my age..any ideas how to get rid of that age issue or should i just lie??..thanks:box:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trapper

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its an asian culture so nothing to do with it.. just be yourself..
 

Trapper

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or just ignore the age issue..never get into it.. change the topic...show them you are cool with your age..for example in that situation , they thought you are young right..you could have told them some funny comments such as..." actually i just lie to the hot babes."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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