"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Age Issue

judoalex

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I live in Tokyo and I ususally lie about my age..im 19 but i can get away at saying im 30..anyways with a few months on this site and others i started sarging alone and im doing quite well. anyways last night i was at a bar..and i played my game perfect..and recently i read an article that you should be proud of your age and wear it like a name tag..anyway i could have laid both of those girls then i told them my age(both girls i coulda ****ed were in their 30s)..then the girl i was going to bang kept wispering to her friend it will be illegal and making funny comments of my age..any ideas how to get rid of that age issue or should i just lie??..thanks:box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trapper

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its an asian culture so nothing to do with it.. just be yourself..
 

Trapper

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or just ignore the age issue..never get into it.. change the topic...show them you are cool with your age..for example in that situation , they thought you are young right..you could have told them some funny comments such as..." actually i just lie to the hot babes."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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