Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Age Issue

judoalex

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I live in Tokyo and I ususally lie about my age..im 19 but i can get away at saying im 30..anyways with a few months on this site and others i started sarging alone and im doing quite well. anyways last night i was at a bar..and i played my game perfect..and recently i read an article that you should be proud of your age and wear it like a name tag..anyway i could have laid both of those girls then i told them my age(both girls i coulda ****ed were in their 30s)..then the girl i was going to bang kept wispering to her friend it will be illegal and making funny comments of my age..any ideas how to get rid of that age issue or should i just lie??..thanks:box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trapper

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its an asian culture so nothing to do with it.. just be yourself..
 

Trapper

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or just ignore the age issue..never get into it.. change the topic...show them you are cool with your age..for example in that situation , they thought you are young right..you could have told them some funny comments such as..." actually i just lie to the hot babes."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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