"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Age Issue

judoalex

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I live in Tokyo and I ususally lie about my age..im 19 but i can get away at saying im 30..anyways with a few months on this site and others i started sarging alone and im doing quite well. anyways last night i was at a bar..and i played my game perfect..and recently i read an article that you should be proud of your age and wear it like a name tag..anyway i could have laid both of those girls then i told them my age(both girls i coulda ****ed were in their 30s)..then the girl i was going to bang kept wispering to her friend it will be illegal and making funny comments of my age..any ideas how to get rid of that age issue or should i just lie??..thanks:box:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trapper

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its an asian culture so nothing to do with it.. just be yourself..
 

Trapper

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or just ignore the age issue..never get into it.. change the topic...show them you are cool with your age..for example in that situation , they thought you are young right..you could have told them some funny comments such as..." actually i just lie to the hot babes."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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