I dont know why but it seems as us guys get older, it generally seems easier to interact with younger women...and even ask them out. Maybe it's their naiveness, or our experience/wisdom they look up to, or our passion/ambition, that just makes it easier in the realm of younger women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Age is magic...
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True..one of the major aspects to it.Bussey said:Or your increased chances of being financially secure.
its girls too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
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Don Juan
I think thiss becomes less relevent as you get old, I mean the difference between say 28 and 18 is significant, but between 28 and 40 is not as much. What I am saying is as you get older the acceptable gap between ages becomes wider, acceptable as in you remain compatible.unless there is a difference of 4+ years
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.