I dont know why but it seems as us guys get older, it generally seems easier to interact with younger women...and even ask them out. Maybe it's their naiveness, or our experience/wisdom they look up to, or our passion/ambition, that just makes it easier in the realm of younger women.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Age is magic...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True..one of the major aspects to it.Bussey said:Or your increased chances of being financially secure.
its girls too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
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Don Juan
I think thiss becomes less relevent as you get old, I mean the difference between say 28 and 18 is significant, but between 28 and 40 is not as much. What I am saying is as you get older the acceptable gap between ages becomes wider, acceptable as in you remain compatible.unless there is a difference of 4+ years
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.