I dont know why but it seems as us guys get older, it generally seems easier to interact with younger women...and even ask them out. Maybe it's their naiveness, or our experience/wisdom they look up to, or our passion/ambition, that just makes it easier in the realm of younger women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Age is magic...
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- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True..one of the major aspects to it.Bussey said:Or your increased chances of being financially secure.
its girls too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
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Don Juan
I think thiss becomes less relevent as you get old, I mean the difference between say 28 and 18 is significant, but between 28 and 40 is not as much. What I am saying is as you get older the acceptable gap between ages becomes wider, acceptable as in you remain compatible.unless there is a difference of 4+ years
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.