I dont know why but it seems as us guys get older, it generally seems easier to interact with younger women...and even ask them out. Maybe it's their naiveness, or our experience/wisdom they look up to, or our passion/ambition, that just makes it easier in the realm of younger women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Age is magic...
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
True..one of the major aspects to it.Bussey said:Or your increased chances of being financially secure.
its girls too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
it makes them look better.. its all insecurity,
girls tend to date older guys because it gives them self approval.."wow if i can date a guy that age i must be good"
she can also bragg to other woman..
thats goes for mostly younger girls.. once both of the people are over 18.. it doesnt really make an impact unless there is a difference of 4+ years
it also goes as finacial stable,
for goals, mostly older men are more mature and have a better develop mind state. that turn girls on too
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Don Juan
I think thiss becomes less relevent as you get old, I mean the difference between say 28 and 18 is significant, but between 28 and 40 is not as much. What I am saying is as you get older the acceptable gap between ages becomes wider, acceptable as in you remain compatible.unless there is a difference of 4+ years
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.