biker_gixxer
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How old are you and what's the age of the youngest girl you've ever had sex with? The youngest girl I had was 19, I was 29.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No problem West. How do I move it?Originally posted by WestCoaster
... or the main DJ board, which has become the high school board.
This is supposed to be the "mature man" site. Not being a prude, but the last thing I want to happen to this board is to deteriorate into comparisons of who banged who, how young she was, a play by play of their sexual escapades (I could care less; plus most of it is lying anyway), and so forth.
The DJ board has de-evolved into that immature stuff so I respectfully suggest you take it there .... pleeeeeeease.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
neither am I, lol.Originally posted by WestCoaster
Or perhaps I'm subconsciously jealous because I'm not getting my jollies with a 19 year old :>)
Well if not, why post this in the first place?Originally posted by biker_gixxer
neither am I, lol.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
49 year old? Nice...Originally posted by OpenMind
Im 30 and been getting my jollies from a 46 year old, a 36 year old, and a 49 year old, all MILF's...... the younger ones just don't seem to satisfy me..
]Originally posted by maranathaman
I don't care if whoever thinks it's "bragging" childish, or whatever...
I am 42, and about a month ago banged a 20 year old on two separate occasions. It was some of the best sex I've had in a long time!
I also met a 20 year-old very hot model and she told me that her bf is 40. So i don't give a fk what other people think. if you are older and can still pull some young puss-puss, mo' powa too ya!
Why not? I haven't banged a young one lately, but I have. I think it would make an interesting topic, if not, oh well.Originally posted by Survivor
Well if not, why post this in the first place?
Moved to Don Juan Discussion.