Flint Stoner
Don Juan
17 year old(just turned) girl dating a 19 and a half old guy.
Yay or nay?
Yay or nay?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Age Gap Poll
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Thats completley fine.
Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.
Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....
Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.
Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....
Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
At the end of the day....I know a 21 year old who is seeing a 16 year old.
A few people have seen it as being wrong.
They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.
Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
A few people have seen it as being wrong.
They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.
Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
Nico Suave
Don Juan
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Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Let me help you out.Nico Suave said:
Yay! No problem whatsoever, man. I'm currently hooking up with a gorgeous 16 year old gal and I'm 20. It's all good if it's legal.
Back to the topic. Age is techinically a number. If the maturity is there, then it's all good. You can take it two ways, either the oldest of the two is immature, or the youngest of the two is very mature. Either way, if it works for them, and it's legal, it's fine.
When I was in 6th/7th grade I was dating an 8th/9th grader, so I know how this goes.
Flint Stoner
Don Juan
Lol, thanks guys for the responses I was hoping for.
I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
When I see and older guy with a woman his age, I just think that he doesn't have the money to attract a nice tight little 18 year old.DarkChaos said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
The quote from that movie actually goes like this:walletjes said:
"Every year, I get older, but they still stay the SAME age."