Flint Stoner
Don Juan
17 year old(just turned) girl dating a 19 and a half old guy.
Yay or nay?
Yay or nay?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Age Gap Poll
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Thats completley fine.
Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.
Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....
Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.
Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....
Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
At the end of the day....I know a 21 year old who is seeing a 16 year old.
A few people have seen it as being wrong.
They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.
Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
A few people have seen it as being wrong.
They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.
Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
Nico Suave
Don Juan
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Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Let me help you out.Nico Suave said:
Yay! No problem whatsoever, man. I'm currently hooking up with a gorgeous 16 year old gal and I'm 20. It's all good if it's legal.
Back to the topic. Age is techinically a number. If the maturity is there, then it's all good. You can take it two ways, either the oldest of the two is immature, or the youngest of the two is very mature. Either way, if it works for them, and it's legal, it's fine.
When I was in 6th/7th grade I was dating an 8th/9th grader, so I know how this goes.
Flint Stoner
Don Juan
Lol, thanks guys for the responses I was hoping for.
I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
When I see and older guy with a woman his age, I just think that he doesn't have the money to attract a nice tight little 18 year old.DarkChaos said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
The quote from that movie actually goes like this:walletjes said:
"Every year, I get older, but they still stay the SAME age."