"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Age Gap Poll

Yay or nay?

  • No problem whatsoever

    Votes: 9 40.9%
  • Utterly wrong

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • You're asking for trouble

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • Not really a big deal

    Votes: 9 40.9%

  • Total voters
    22

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tomatoes

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Thats completley fine.

Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.

Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....

Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
 

Tomatoes

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At the end of the day....I know a 21 year old who is seeing a 16 year old.

A few people have seen it as being wrong.

They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.

Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
 

Climax

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I think that the main problem with this would be the maturity gap.... otherwise, no problem.
 

Nico Suave

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Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DarkChaos

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Eh, 16 is pushing it for me. When I see an older guy dating a younger girl like that I just think he can't attract women his own age so he has to go look elsewhere.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Nico Suave said:
Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
Let me help you out.

Yay! No problem whatsoever, man. I'm currently hooking up with a gorgeous 16 year old gal and I'm 20. It's all good if it's legal.

Back to the topic. Age is techinically a number. If the maturity is there, then it's all good. You can take it two ways, either the oldest of the two is immature, or the youngest of the two is very mature. Either way, if it works for them, and it's legal, it's fine.

When I was in 6th/7th grade I was dating an 8th/9th grader, so I know how this goes.
 

Flint Stoner

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Lol, thanks guys for the responses I was hoping for.


I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
 

walletjes

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24 and hit a 17
bang bang
the good thing about highschool chicks, they are always the same age
 

S1NN3R

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DarkChaos said:
When I see an older guy dating a younger girl like that I just think he can't attract women his own age so he has to go look elsewhere.
When I see and older guy with a woman his age, I just think that he doesn't have the money to attract a nice tight little 18 year old. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dannyrt34

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walletjes said:
24 and hit a 17
bang bang
the good thing about highschool chicks, they are always the same age
The quote from that movie actually goes like this:

"Every year, I get older, but they still stay the SAME age."
 
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