"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Age Gap Poll

Yay or nay?

  • No problem whatsoever

    Votes: 9 40.9%
  • Utterly wrong

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • You're asking for trouble

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • Not really a big deal

    Votes: 9 40.9%

  • Total voters
    22

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tomatoes

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Thats completley fine.

Shes over 16 so its fair game. I was 20 and dating a just turned 17 year old.

Im 21 and had a 17 year old the other night.....

Keep it above 16 and you got no issues......(legally)......(in the UK)
 

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At the end of the day....I know a 21 year old who is seeing a 16 year old.

A few people have seen it as being wrong.

They are both of legal age....They are not doing anything wrong....plus they really like each other and work well together so all i can say is good going on them. Not falling to social peer pressure.

Im 21 and naturally look about 16-17. I generally only go for girls of about 17-21 because thats my releative age gap. I have had a 15 year old come on to me and i pushed her away like she was cancer. I can get sex without having to be named a pedo thanks.....
 

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I think that the main problem with this would be the maturity gap.... otherwise, no problem.
 

Nico Suave

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Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eh, 16 is pushing it for me. When I see an older guy dating a younger girl like that I just think he can't attract women his own age so he has to go look elsewhere.
 

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Nico Suave said:
Yay! No problem man whatsoeva Im currently hooking up wiv a gorgeous 16 year old gal n im 20. Its all gud if its legal.
Let me help you out.

Yay! No problem whatsoever, man. I'm currently hooking up with a gorgeous 16 year old gal and I'm 20. It's all good if it's legal.

Back to the topic. Age is techinically a number. If the maturity is there, then it's all good. You can take it two ways, either the oldest of the two is immature, or the youngest of the two is very mature. Either way, if it works for them, and it's legal, it's fine.

When I was in 6th/7th grade I was dating an 8th/9th grader, so I know how this goes.
 

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Lol, thanks guys for the responses I was hoping for.


I just wanted to make sure, it's not like I look old but I'm really tall 6'5" so I wanted a little peace of mind.
 

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24 and hit a 17
bang bang
the good thing about highschool chicks, they are always the same age
 

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DarkChaos said:
When I see an older guy dating a younger girl like that I just think he can't attract women his own age so he has to go look elsewhere.
When I see and older guy with a woman his age, I just think that he doesn't have the money to attract a nice tight little 18 year old. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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walletjes said:
24 and hit a 17
bang bang
the good thing about highschool chicks, they are always the same age
The quote from that movie actually goes like this:

"Every year, I get older, but they still stay the SAME age."
 
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