You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So, you live your life by a formula?LOLseagull said:Just use the age old formula.
Take your age, divide it by two.
Then add seven to that figure.
That is the youngest age you can go.
25/2 = 12.5
12.5 + 7 = 19.5
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's just goofy.seagull said:Just use the age old formula.
Take your age, divide it by two.
Then add seven to that figure.
That is the youngest age you can go.
25/2 = 12.5
12.5 + 7 = 19.5
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DJnoob said:Im 25 and lets say the HB i want to be friends and or date is 18..
What you guys think? Does this normally work out for you guys?
tmpgstx said:Don't blow it dude, i had my chance at 25 of an 18 year that liked me alot. She's a doctor now and i thought she was hot but too young for me. Go figure, was too dam mature for my own good. Now that i'm a bit older, realize how dumb that was. I'm shooting from the hip for girls in their early 20s now. It's just their so dam immature some of them ..lol.
~~~ chuckling ~~~How the h3ll can you gauge a 18 year old girl's maturity; by her cup size?