slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Just wondering what your age brackets are, if you have any
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Age brackets
- Thread starter slitherjef
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wait_out
Master Don Juan
13-17
18-24
25-34
35-54
55-64
65+
You may not date out of your age bracket or you will recieve a $70 ticket by the Committee for the Upkeep of Social Convention.
Also, it affects your vehicle insurance rates
18-24
25-34
35-54
55-64
65+
You may not date out of your age bracket or you will recieve a $70 ticket by the Committee for the Upkeep of Social Convention.
Also, it affects your vehicle insurance rates
scrouds
Master Don Juan
18+. Keep it legal.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
I should have asked, what YOUR age brackets are
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
The talk of the town I live in is this 49yo who's banging a 19yo girl.
I found out who she was when I fvcked her 30yo sister the other night. :-D
My best effort was my last STR - me 36, she 23.
But I would be very reluctant to get serious with any girl under 25 after that little experience.
I found out who she was when I fvcked her 30yo sister the other night. :-D
My best effort was my last STR - me 36, she 23.
But I would be very reluctant to get serious with any girl under 25 after that little experience.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
at a previous job ~5 years ago, there was a chick in my large department that I would have easily bent over the copier. I think she was 52. Surprised me, I had her pegged in the 40s. Had a hell of a body.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.