slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Just wondering what your age brackets are, if you have any
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Age brackets
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wait_out
Master Don Juan
13-17
18-24
25-34
35-54
55-64
65+
You may not date out of your age bracket or you will recieve a $70 ticket by the Committee for the Upkeep of Social Convention.
Also, it affects your vehicle insurance rates
18-24
25-34
35-54
55-64
65+
You may not date out of your age bracket or you will recieve a $70 ticket by the Committee for the Upkeep of Social Convention.
Also, it affects your vehicle insurance rates
scrouds
Master Don Juan
18+. Keep it legal.
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
I should have asked, what YOUR age brackets are
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
The talk of the town I live in is this 49yo who's banging a 19yo girl.
I found out who she was when I fvcked her 30yo sister the other night. :-D
My best effort was my last STR - me 36, she 23.
But I would be very reluctant to get serious with any girl under 25 after that little experience.
I found out who she was when I fvcked her 30yo sister the other night. :-D
My best effort was my last STR - me 36, she 23.
But I would be very reluctant to get serious with any girl under 25 after that little experience.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
at a previous job ~5 years ago, there was a chick in my large department that I would have easily bent over the copier. I think she was 52. Surprised me, I had her pegged in the 40s. Had a hell of a body.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.