"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Age 57 harridan laments that her ex-husband found girlfriend within 1 month, while she has gone on nearly 100 dates with no boyfriend

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My ex-husband started dating someone within a month of our divorce. One month. The man who was incapable of having an intimate relationship with me found someone in a month.

And here I sit alone after almost five years of searching and more first dates than I care to reveal. I’ll only say the number is higher than my age (57) and lower than 100.
During my adventures in dating, I’ve met so many “no’s”. So many who I determined weren’t a good match for me. So many who I liked and wanted to see again but they didn’t feel the same way about me.

There was one who said he scheduled a reservation to meet for dinner, but he didn’t end up following through and never showed up. On a cold winter night, I waited at the restaurant for nothing.

Then there was the one whose shoulders drooped the moment he saw me. I hadn’t even said hello.
my opinion: The great payback of life, where harridans suffer the dating indignities that young men suffer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wonder why? The author:



Sorry for the disturbance.
 

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We don't know what this 57 year old looks like. Even former supermodel Paulina Porizkova had major issues with dating around 55-57. She started a new relationship around her 58th birthday in early 2023. It is doubtful that this woman looks as good as even a 55+ Porizkova.



 

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Oh well :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BillyPilgrim

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Ell-oh-****ing-ell. That's not the author. That's stock imagery. See:


That is not what a 57-year old woman looks like. Maybe someone in her thirties, and I think that picture has been photoshopped.

No, the author probably looks exactly like what we think she does.
Good catch. If you do an image search for "kasey sparks medium" on google, it's the first image to come up and it links to her medium page. Some 57 y/o women do look like that when they filter their faces (at least in my area that has many women with scandinavian ancestry).

But at any rate the author can't tell that's an offputting/creepy image to use, which is par for the course for delusional older women. Even if she doesn't look old, she'll look unsettling.
 

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Good catch. If you do an image search for "kasey sparks medium" on google, it's the first image to come up and it links to her medium page. Some 57 y/o women do look like that when they filter their faces (at least in my area that has many women with scandinavian ancestry).

But at any rate the author can't tell that's an offputting/creepy image to use, which is par for the course for delusional older women. Even if she doesn't look old, she'll look unsettling.
I'd hit it.
 

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I'd hit it.
Sure, maybe if hitting it was all that was involved. You gotta deal with "it" before and after though. You want to wake up to that face starting at you? Lol.
 

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She could try in one of those archeological sites in egypt.

I'm sure many would be interested in her as long as she made it clear that she is curse free.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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