"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Age 57 harridan laments that her ex-husband found girlfriend within 1 month, while she has gone on nearly 100 dates with no boyfriend

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My ex-husband started dating someone within a month of our divorce. One month. The man who was incapable of having an intimate relationship with me found someone in a month.

And here I sit alone after almost five years of searching and more first dates than I care to reveal. I’ll only say the number is higher than my age (57) and lower than 100.
During my adventures in dating, I’ve met so many “no’s”. So many who I determined weren’t a good match for me. So many who I liked and wanted to see again but they didn’t feel the same way about me.

There was one who said he scheduled a reservation to meet for dinner, but he didn’t end up following through and never showed up. On a cold winter night, I waited at the restaurant for nothing.

Then there was the one whose shoulders drooped the moment he saw me. I hadn’t even said hello.
my opinion: The great payback of life, where harridans suffer the dating indignities that young men suffer.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wonder why? The author:



Sorry for the disturbance.
 

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We don't know what this 57 year old looks like. Even former supermodel Paulina Porizkova had major issues with dating around 55-57. She started a new relationship around her 58th birthday in early 2023. It is doubtful that this woman looks as good as even a 55+ Porizkova.



 

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Oh well :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BillyPilgrim

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Ell-oh-****ing-ell. That's not the author. That's stock imagery. See:


That is not what a 57-year old woman looks like. Maybe someone in her thirties, and I think that picture has been photoshopped.

No, the author probably looks exactly like what we think she does.
Good catch. If you do an image search for "kasey sparks medium" on google, it's the first image to come up and it links to her medium page. Some 57 y/o women do look like that when they filter their faces (at least in my area that has many women with scandinavian ancestry).

But at any rate the author can't tell that's an offputting/creepy image to use, which is par for the course for delusional older women. Even if she doesn't look old, she'll look unsettling.
 

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Good catch. If you do an image search for "kasey sparks medium" on google, it's the first image to come up and it links to her medium page. Some 57 y/o women do look like that when they filter their faces (at least in my area that has many women with scandinavian ancestry).

But at any rate the author can't tell that's an offputting/creepy image to use, which is par for the course for delusional older women. Even if she doesn't look old, she'll look unsettling.
I'd hit it.
 

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I'd hit it.
Sure, maybe if hitting it was all that was involved. You gotta deal with "it" before and after though. You want to wake up to that face starting at you? Lol.
 

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She could try in one of those archeological sites in egypt.

I'm sure many would be interested in her as long as she made it clear that she is curse free.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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