At age 33 now I have to admit something. My sex drive is noticeably declining. When we were teens, just thinking about sex or seeing a girl's nipple poking through a shirt would give you a boner that was hard to get rid of. And of course that was the time the teacher would call you to the front of the room. ;-) Now even porn doesn't arouse me much anymore. I don't know if this is a bad thing necessarily. Maybe it's good, and it just frees up part of my brain to think about more productive things. I hope this is just a leveling-off and not a steep decline. Otherwise by 45 I'm going to be impotent. I still get very aroused when I'm physical with a girl, but merely thinking about it or seeing a nude female body doesn't get me there anymore. Which is a huge difference from my younger days.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
age 33 realization
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am exactly your age and I noticed the same exact thing recently. I mean when ever I am with my girl I always have sex with her and get turned on but I could probably go a week without sex or jerking it were as 6 years I would be lucky to last 2 days and 15 years ago lucky to 1 day. lol
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
Hooligan Harry
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Really? I still want to **** anything that moves. Im as bad now as I was when I was 21
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KontrollerX
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You have nothing to worry about bro.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
I'm already at that level and i'm only 25. Not that I don't want to make sweet love to most beautiful girls I see on the streets but I already lost the will to sarge for them. I am totally focused on business I just don't care about pleasure anymore I could go on a no date streek for a year and wouldn't care.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I WISH i was like that....if only there was a drug i could take.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
spider_007 said:
damn, not me.
fwiw, exercise and activity levels make a noticeable change for me.
And about viagra, a while back when I had two nymphomaniac girlfriends at the same time and was having sex sometimes five or six times a night, I actually went and got a prescription. It is a fun party drug, especially if you are going to bang multiple chicks in one night. Take a quarter or half pill at most. I would not use it regularly, but it is fun to have a half-pill tucked away.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
the latter, which is useful when drunk or after having already had a lot of sex