At age 33 now I have to admit something. My sex drive is noticeably declining. When we were teens, just thinking about sex or seeing a girl's nipple poking through a shirt would give you a boner that was hard to get rid of. And of course that was the time the teacher would call you to the front of the room. ;-) Now even porn doesn't arouse me much anymore. I don't know if this is a bad thing necessarily. Maybe it's good, and it just frees up part of my brain to think about more productive things. I hope this is just a leveling-off and not a steep decline. Otherwise by 45 I'm going to be impotent. I still get very aroused when I'm physical with a girl, but merely thinking about it or seeing a nude female body doesn't get me there anymore. Which is a huge difference from my younger days.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
age 33 realization
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I am exactly your age and I noticed the same exact thing recently. I mean when ever I am with my girl I always have sex with her and get turned on but I could probably go a week without sex or jerking it were as 6 years I would be lucky to last 2 days and 15 years ago lucky to 1 day. lol
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
Hooligan Harry
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Really? I still want to **** anything that moves. Im as bad now as I was when I was 21
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KontrollerX
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You have nothing to worry about bro.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
I'm already at that level and i'm only 25. Not that I don't want to make sweet love to most beautiful girls I see on the streets but I already lost the will to sarge for them. I am totally focused on business I just don't care about pleasure anymore I could go on a no date streek for a year and wouldn't care.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I WISH i was like that....if only there was a drug i could take.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
spider_007 said:
damn, not me.
fwiw, exercise and activity levels make a noticeable change for me.
And about viagra, a while back when I had two nymphomaniac girlfriends at the same time and was having sex sometimes five or six times a night, I actually went and got a prescription. It is a fun party drug, especially if you are going to bang multiple chicks in one night. Take a quarter or half pill at most. I would not use it regularly, but it is fun to have a half-pill tucked away.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
the latter, which is useful when drunk or after having already had a lot of sex