At age 33 now I have to admit something. My sex drive is noticeably declining. When we were teens, just thinking about sex or seeing a girl's nipple poking through a shirt would give you a boner that was hard to get rid of. And of course that was the time the teacher would call you to the front of the room. ;-) Now even porn doesn't arouse me much anymore. I don't know if this is a bad thing necessarily. Maybe it's good, and it just frees up part of my brain to think about more productive things. I hope this is just a leveling-off and not a steep decline. Otherwise by 45 I'm going to be impotent. I still get very aroused when I'm physical with a girl, but merely thinking about it or seeing a nude female body doesn't get me there anymore. Which is a huge difference from my younger days.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I am exactly your age and I noticed the same exact thing recently. I mean when ever I am with my girl I always have sex with her and get turned on but I could probably go a week without sex or jerking it were as 6 years I would be lucky to last 2 days and 15 years ago lucky to 1 day. lol
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
Hooligan Harry
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Really? I still want to **** anything that moves. Im as bad now as I was when I was 21
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
KontrollerX
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You have nothing to worry about bro.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
I'm already at that level and i'm only 25. Not that I don't want to make sweet love to most beautiful girls I see on the streets but I already lost the will to sarge for them. I am totally focused on business I just don't care about pleasure anymore I could go on a no date streek for a year and wouldn't care.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I WISH i was like that....if only there was a drug i could take.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
spider_007 said:
damn, not me.
fwiw, exercise and activity levels make a noticeable change for me.
And about viagra, a while back when I had two nymphomaniac girlfriends at the same time and was having sex sometimes five or six times a night, I actually went and got a prescription. It is a fun party drug, especially if you are going to bang multiple chicks in one night. Take a quarter or half pill at most. I would not use it regularly, but it is fun to have a half-pill tucked away.
Bible_Belt
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the latter, which is useful when drunk or after having already had a lot of sex