At age 33 now I have to admit something. My sex drive is noticeably declining. When we were teens, just thinking about sex or seeing a girl's nipple poking through a shirt would give you a boner that was hard to get rid of. And of course that was the time the teacher would call you to the front of the room. ;-) Now even porn doesn't arouse me much anymore. I don't know if this is a bad thing necessarily. Maybe it's good, and it just frees up part of my brain to think about more productive things. I hope this is just a leveling-off and not a steep decline. Otherwise by 45 I'm going to be impotent. I still get very aroused when I'm physical with a girl, but merely thinking about it or seeing a nude female body doesn't get me there anymore. Which is a huge difference from my younger days.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
age 33 realization
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am exactly your age and I noticed the same exact thing recently. I mean when ever I am with my girl I always have sex with her and get turned on but I could probably go a week without sex or jerking it were as 6 years I would be lucky to last 2 days and 15 years ago lucky to 1 day. lol
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
I guess its part of the aging process. Were 33 imagine when we are 50? That being said I have no problems getting it up and could have sex everyday if I wish.
Hooligan Harry
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Really? I still want to **** anything that moves. Im as bad now as I was when I was 21
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
KontrollerX
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You have nothing to worry about bro.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
Viagra will keep you going until you croak. :rock:
Supposedly male pornstars who don't even need the drug take it for an extra edge.
Definitely no shame in it especially if they're using it.
I'm already at that level and i'm only 25. Not that I don't want to make sweet love to most beautiful girls I see on the streets but I already lost the will to sarge for them. I am totally focused on business I just don't care about pleasure anymore I could go on a no date streek for a year and wouldn't care.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I WISH i was like that....if only there was a drug i could take.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Not to think about women/pvssy....i can just image the energy/spare time/money i would have. How much happier i would be.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
spider_007 said:
damn, not me.
fwiw, exercise and activity levels make a noticeable change for me.
And about viagra, a while back when I had two nymphomaniac girlfriends at the same time and was having sex sometimes five or six times a night, I actually went and got a prescription. It is a fun party drug, especially if you are going to bang multiple chicks in one night. Take a quarter or half pill at most. I would not use it regularly, but it is fun to have a half-pill tucked away.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
the latter, which is useful when drunk or after having already had a lot of sex