JohnnyIrish
Master Don Juan
.. how bad is this to eat?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I dunno, possibly.Francisco d'Anconia said:Is that the same stuff that's underneath the stove?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HOLYMaster Bates said:It will give you penis tumors in the shape of Al Roker's face. don't risk it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
are you 12Potbelly said:HOLY
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YHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAA THAT WAS TOO FUNNY
Exactly what I was wondering and ya answered it to a T. Thanks for the detailed info.Throttle said:you'll know if you get the blackened stuff into the sauce... it'll have black crumblies in it & taste smoky. if you eat your steaks rare to medium-rare then you shouldn't need to blacken it, and all steak lovers should get comfortable with eating well-seared but not blackened medium rare steaks. that's an opinion from one steak lover to another. if it comforts you, i don't know of any epidemiological evidence linking cancer and eating well-done steaks, but here's the science:
http://chemistry.about.com/b/2007/06/24/mmm-mmm-cancer.htm
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'll have to try that.RedPill said:Try this. . .
If you're pan-cooking steak, make a bed of sliced onions (use an entire onion) to cover the bottom of the pan. Use a small amount of oil or butter to keep the onions from burning, and cook the steak on top of the onions. The juices from the steak will infuse the onions, creating a delicious side item to go with the steak. The steak will still cook well and won't make total contact with the pan surface. You'll get full flavor with minimal burnage.
Ah, but you miss out on all of that seared, juice infused goodness. Poaching a steak is good if you're making a pot roast type deal but even then you want to sear the meat to insulate the inside moistness.JohnnyIrish said:I'll have to try that.
What I just learned and tried:
Took my steak, cut off the fat. Then cut them long ways (so you have about 1/2 or 2/3 inch thick strips of steak. Put butter and olive oil in a pan. As it melts add steak. Add in 1/4 cup of water, kosher salt, pepper, parsley, and garlic. Keep stirring. When the water is close to being fully evaporated, the steak should be done (I tasted it and yep.. perfect). At this point add in another tsp of butter and mix it twice around. Pour the steak and its contents on a place with its sauce.
Besides this tasting better then any steak I previously cooked.. A major bonus for me is this just delt with evaporating water.. so no SMOKE! Yay.. my fire alarm didn't go off this time!:woo: