JohnnyIrish
Master Don Juan
.. how bad is this to eat?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I dunno, possibly.Francisco d'Anconia said:Is that the same stuff that's underneath the stove?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HOLYMaster Bates said:It will give you penis tumors in the shape of Al Roker's face. don't risk it.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
are you 12Potbelly said:HOLY
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YHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAA THAT WAS TOO FUNNY
Exactly what I was wondering and ya answered it to a T. Thanks for the detailed info.Throttle said:you'll know if you get the blackened stuff into the sauce... it'll have black crumblies in it & taste smoky. if you eat your steaks rare to medium-rare then you shouldn't need to blacken it, and all steak lovers should get comfortable with eating well-seared but not blackened medium rare steaks. that's an opinion from one steak lover to another. if it comforts you, i don't know of any epidemiological evidence linking cancer and eating well-done steaks, but here's the science:
http://chemistry.about.com/b/2007/06/24/mmm-mmm-cancer.htm
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'll have to try that.RedPill said:Try this. . .
If you're pan-cooking steak, make a bed of sliced onions (use an entire onion) to cover the bottom of the pan. Use a small amount of oil or butter to keep the onions from burning, and cook the steak on top of the onions. The juices from the steak will infuse the onions, creating a delicious side item to go with the steak. The steak will still cook well and won't make total contact with the pan surface. You'll get full flavor with minimal burnage.
Ah, but you miss out on all of that seared, juice infused goodness. Poaching a steak is good if you're making a pot roast type deal but even then you want to sear the meat to insulate the inside moistness.JohnnyIrish said:I'll have to try that.
What I just learned and tried:
Took my steak, cut off the fat. Then cut them long ways (so you have about 1/2 or 2/3 inch thick strips of steak. Put butter and olive oil in a pan. As it melts add steak. Add in 1/4 cup of water, kosher salt, pepper, parsley, and garlic. Keep stirring. When the water is close to being fully evaporated, the steak should be done (I tasted it and yep.. perfect). At this point add in another tsp of butter and mix it twice around. Pour the steak and its contents on a place with its sauce.
Besides this tasting better then any steak I previously cooked.. A major bonus for me is this just delt with evaporating water.. so no SMOKE! Yay.. my fire alarm didn't go off this time!:woo: